Remove your energetic parasites
Individuals who work with others in a more physical way like tangible interaction (massage, kinesiotherapy, reflexotherapy so on) oftenly end up with some nasty energy “attachments”…
I will try a distilled version of the entire mechanism so anyone can understand this perspective, how it works, why it works and how to clean your field.
First of all, it is all about energies. Energies can not be destroyed only converted, transmuted, transformed and that’s a scientific fact.
Static energy is a good environment to sustain and form, develop energetic parasites which feed off with your energy from your own bio energetic field.
Don’t confuse static energy with static electricity… are not the same.
So, how does this work?
Best way to explain is through storytelling method so let’s see…
You are or you have friend who does relaxation massages, reflexotherapy or whatever activity which involves human contact on daily basis where your or your friend’s purpose is to help.
By that sole agreement you are “inviting” so to speak other energies in your own field because the idea of helping, assistance comes with a type of self-sacrifice at some level.
“I open my space, offer my skills, my energy to help you feel better”
And there are soooo many jobs, activities even outside the holistic area which operate within that framework.
Here’s a small list of jobs (or activities) and places that more than often have to deal with this type of static energies and parasitic energies:
Jobs and Activities
- massage therapy
- reflexology
- acupuncture
- chiropractic care
- physical therapy
- occupational Therapy
- Reiki healing
- doctors, nurses
- strippers and pole dancers
All other activities and jobs where human contact is a must and where one individual is considered space opener and the other or others are welcomed in that space
Places and locations
- beauty salons, public pools and bathrooms
- gym, fitness studio and spa environments
- nightclubs and strippclubs
- hospitals
- churches and cemeteries
- hospitals
- schools and kindergartens
- home
- cinemagraph, halls and theaters
Basically any location or place where there are corners, edgy furniture, where energy doesn’t flow in a fluid way but remains stuck and contribute to residual energies
Yes, your home too can be a favorable environment for static, residual and parasitic energies. And Feng Shui covers a segment from that aspect.
These energies are subtle, not noticeable if you are not sensitive enough or overwhelming and heavy if you are hypersensitive.
How parasitic energies form and why?
Thoughts and actions are caring energy and we live in an ocean of energies, vibrations, frequencies so it is a natural development as patch of green grass in a park or on sidewalk.
Yes, it is not something we are aware off all the time and there are no extensive scientific data to backup any of this but again…. science is a matter of proving, poking, measuring the matter and at that chapter we as a technologically advanced society … need to further evolve along with spiritual technologies rather than denying its existence.
Parasitic energies are “dumb” so to speak yet possess an intelligence an instinctual (primal) behavior which allows them to survive.
Parasitic energies form due to various factors, including negative thoughts, emotions, actions, environmental influences, and energetic imbalances (among other factors).
Negative Emotions and Thoughts
Strong negative emotions such as fear, anger, resentment, or jealousy can create dense and stagnant energy that may attract parasitic energies. When individuals dwell on these emotions or hold onto negative thought patterns, it can contribute to the formation of parasitic energy around them.
Trauma and Unresolved Issues
Traumatic experiences, unresolved emotional wounds, or past traumas can leave energetic imprints that continue to affect individuals long after the events have occurred. These unresolved issues may attract parasitic energies and contribute to energetic blockages or disturbances.
Environmental Influences
Negative energy can also be generated by environmental factors such as pollution, electromagnetic radiation, or geopathic stress. Unhealthy or chaotic environments may harbor parasitic energies that can affect the well-being of those who inhabit or frequent these spaces.
Unbalanced Relationships
Dysfunctional or “toxic” relationships can create energetic cords or attachments that drain individuals’ energy and leave them vulnerable to parasitic influences. Codependent dynamics, manipulation, or emotional vampirism in relationships can contribute to the formation of parasitic energies.
Spiritual Attacks
Individuals may intentionally or unintentionally direct negative energy or psychic attacks toward others. These spiritual attacks can manifest as parasitic energies that latch onto their targets and disrupt their energetic balance and well-being.
Unconscious Behavior
Sometimes, individuals may unknowingly engage in behaviors or habits that contribute to the formation of parasitic energies. This could include excessive consumption of negative media, engaging in gossip or negativity, or neglecting self-care practices that maintain energetic hygiene.
How do I know if I have such attachments?
If you are aware and experience parasitic energies draining your energy, you may exhibit a variety of behaviors and states that reflect the impact of this influence on your mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Here’s a list of possible states and behaviors:
Fatigue. Feeling constantly tired or exhausted despite adequate rest.
Lethargy. A lack of motivation or energy to engage in activities.
Depression. Persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, or despair.
Anxiety. Experiencing excessive worry, nervousness, or restlessness.
Irritability. Easily becoming agitated, frustrated, or angry.
Mood Swings. Fluctuations in mood from highs to lows without apparent cause.
Emotional Drain. Feeling emotionally depleted or numb.
Low Self-Esteem. A diminished sense of self-worth or confidence.
Cognitive Fog. Difficulty concentrating, memory problems, or mental fog.
Insomnia. Difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep despite fatigue.
Physical Ailments. Unexplained aches, pains, or illnesses.
Paranoia. Feeling suspicious or distrustful of others’ intentions.
Addictive Behaviors. Turning to substances or behaviors to cope with stress or discomfort.
Self-Destructive Habits. Engaging in behaviors that harm oneself physically, emotionally, or mentally.
Difficulty Setting Boundaries. Struggling to assert personal boundaries or saying no to others.
Relationship Strain. Experiencing conflict, tension, or breakdowns in relationships.
Spiritual Disconnect. Feeling disconnected from one’s spiritual or inner self.
Sense of Being Drained. Sensing a feeling of being energetically depleted or drained.
Loss of Joy. Difficulty experiencing pleasure or joy in activities that were once enjoyable.
Please note that these states and behaviors can also be caused by other factors and may not solely be attributed to parasitic energies.
Addressing energetic imbalances and protecting one’s energy field can be beneficial in alleviating these symptoms and restoring well-being.
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How to protect my energy?
There are a lot of practices, actions and activities you can include in your daily activities to improve the quality of your life.
I will name just one.
Visualization and Meditation. Use any visualisation style or meditative techniques which gives you a sense of self-empowerment, cleansing, self-transformation and you feel comfortable with.
I don’t have one specific in mind because many of you come from all sort of cultural backgrounds and have your own belief system so the risk of doing more harm than good is a valid one.
For example, if you are a Christian (I know I am so, I always use me as an example) and this idea of “parasitic energies” and “meditative states” are not exactly “your repertoire” instead of taking advantage of a cool meditation or visualization exercise you might end up creating a new conflict within…
I’m not going to insist on this idea but my suggestion is to give up all fear based ideas or teachings no matter how the “society” is labeling you or them.
This is a simple yet very powerful visualisation and guided meditation which doesn’t involve or disrupt any other belief system.
Sit comfortable and relax your muscles, relax your feet, your knees,
Relax your bottom muscles, your abdomen, your entire torso, shoulders and hands,
Relax your neck and your facial muscles,
Close your eyes and breath in through the nose for 7 seconds, stop and keep your breath in for 7 seconds and exhale through mouth for 9 seconds.
Repeat this at least 6 times and exhale all worries and concerns, fears and let your awareness focus on your breathing.
With each breath in you take the hearth space is getting bigger and bigger, even when you exhale the heart space is still getting bigger and brighter, a worm light from within is getting bigger.
Imagine yourself in the center of a 9ft (around 3 meters) 360deg light-energy sphere and nothing else but love energy can pass in and out of its walls.
This sphere grows from the center of your being and can include only the energies and beings you allow them to approach you, everything else is transformed, realigned into the neutral nature of their existence.
Don’t pass judgement on any of the energies you encounter.
Don’t focus on any negative thoughts and ideas. You allowed them to notify you and help you understand yourself, be aware of yourself, you allowed yourself to have the great power over them, to have choices.
In your space is only you and all you invite to be healed, to gain strength, to transform into light.
There is no place for shadows and darkness, for low vibration energies because they can’t stand the light and the powerful energy your sphere is emanating.
Open and expand the space of light for anyone who needs it because you know when you light up anyone’s shadows you lose nothing at all, you only spread more light.
All unnecessary attachments transform themselves because you are aware of them, you understand their message, their meaning and now all these can be transformed because no longer serve a purpose.
This sphere is always active with you and gets even stronger when you are aware of it.
The energy of gratitude, the energy of acceptance, compassion and love are the ones empowering your own fields.
A few Q&A?
How to deal with a toxic relationship?
Abusive behavior or violent behavior is not something we need to accept hoping that the abusive party (be it spouse, parents, siblings or any other family role) is going to behave better one day.
Because it is a wide area and a lot of typing I will try to mention just a few aspects.
Abusive parents. Most of the time parents try to live their youth, their life which they didn’t had but wish they had through their children.
Sometimes their own frustration can manifest in their behavior and their behavior has a great impact on their children.
Emotional abuse, physical abuse, mental and spiritual abuse are real aspects with visible manifestations in their children’s behavior.
If the behavior is not addressed the ultimate solution to preserve the state of self wellbeing is to distance yourself (physical distance) from the source of abusive behavior or, if you are strong enough and you understand that all these challenges are there because each of you has lessons to learn, then do the unthinkable and crash their behavior with your love and understanding by explaining why they feel the need to hurt you so they get the feeling of their wound being healed.
I stumbled upon a nice quote: “You are the God’s answer to their prayers!”
Please remember that at soul level you all have agreements, you all agreed to teach eachother lessons, to support and offer the experienced needed for you all to grow. Yes it is not something easy to wrap your head around and move on but in the light of this perspective imagine you all family souls who discuss and plan and agree upon so many challenges and situations and some of you cry and ask for forgiveness because you knew that here on Earth school you will hurt each other and none of you will remember the love and the sacrifice you do for eachother. It is an image I wish all of you be able to remember.
How to stop being an energetical bouffe for others?
First of all, learn to say NO!
It is your right to have an opinion, it is your right to protect your space and set healthy boundaries.
Learn to say No not only as a metaphor but No as spoken word.
Body language helps a lot and intuitively we do magic with hands.
Say the word No with a clear strong voice as a statement, move your right hand (or left hand if you feel more comfortable) from the upper side, slicing the air in front of you (an oblique line).
Doing that is not only a physical transmission but an energetical one too. The slice of the “air” is blocking the “in front of you” energy which transmits a definitive No, again both physical and energetical.
The body movement, basically the air slicing is the indicative, representative of “cutting” an energy, interruption of energy, behavior or situation and is empowered by the vibration of the word No, the voice without fear.
You unknowingly “invite” or “agree” to be a source of food for other energies and individuals when you accept a situation when you feel you do a sacrifice of your time, energy, focus, space, a compromise by denying your own needs in order to satisfy others needs or requirements. The obedience is a form of abusive behavior because it means you must obey something, an idea or a situation which is not aligned with your true desires.
Obedience has both negative and positive aspects just like self-sacrifice.
Cutting cords is an esoteric practice (mainy popular among witchcraft practitioners) which can help with detaching from certain relationships and situations.
My favorite suggestion is practicing the Observer’s state because it is self-empowering and allows you to decide if you want to offer your light or not. This way you invalidate nothing.
How does these energetic parasites look like?
Can have many forms, from spheres to more complex structures.
You have to understand that we speak in terms of energy but we don’t define it as mechanical (kinetic energy) electrical energy but more of etheric and denser energies.
Somewhere above within this article, there’s Places and locations list, and I’ve mentioned about pools. Yes, some parasitic energies are able to move through the water environment because, you already know this, water element can retain energy, can hold memory and has a level of conscious of intelligence of understanding you never knew possible. Need a reference? Google for the Masaru Emoto water experiment…
However, when visualizing or sensing these parasitic energies, you may perceive them in various forms based on your intuition, imagination, your library, and cultural beliefs. Here are some common ways in which energetic parasites might show to you
Dark or Dense Clouds. Energetic parasites may appear as dark or dense clouds of energy that seem to hover around individuals or spaces. These clouds may feel heavy or oppressive and can obscure the natural flow of positive energy.
Invasive Cords or Tentacles. Some people visualize energetic parasites as invasive cords or tentacles that attach themselves to individuals’ energy fields, draining their vitality and disrupting their energetic balance. These cords may appear as thick, rope-like structures extending from the parasitic energy to its host.
Shadowy Figures or Entities. Energetic parasites may be perceived as shadowy figures or entities lurking in the background, feeding off negative emotions or thoughts. These entities may appear as shapeless shadows or take on more distinct forms based on cultural beliefs or personal experiences.
Distorted or Twisted Shapes. In some visualizations, energetic parasites may manifest as distorted or twisted shapes that disrupt the smooth flow of energy in a space. These shapes may appear jagged, angular, or irregular, reflecting the disruptive nature of the parasitic energy.
Draining Vortexes. Energetic parasites might be visualized as swirling vortexes of energy that suck in and deplete the vitality of individuals or environments. These vortexes may appear as spiraling whirlpools or black holes, symbolizing the relentless consumption of energy.
Unnatural Colors or Auras. Energetic parasites may emit unnatural colors or auras that contrast with the surrounding energy. These colors may appear dull, murky, or discordant, signaling their parasitic nature and lack of alignment with positive, life-affirming energies.
Because in your universe there’s only you, your projection, you are adding details from your own library.
Let’s sum it up!
Lighten up. Riseup your vibration so you can be invisible and not be touched by these energetic parasites. Do it through meditative states, visualisation, exercice gratitude, compassion, love. Trust and forgive yourself by healing those old traumas and wounds.
Transform negative thinking into successful stories to self empower you rather than seeing yourself as a victim and promoting that state as a healing state.
Protect your mind, spirit and body. Don’t invalidate the negative thoughts, there are there with a purpose. Allow them to pass by without focusing on them… sometimes you are the one testing yourself.
Don’t run from the darkness… it is a waste of your energy, face it knowing that it can not hurt you unless you allow it.
Hiding and ignoring that you have some issues doesn’t make the problem go away, only makes it hit you more stronger next time.
Understand that it is ok to say No, it is ok to have healthy boundaries.
Change the definition of your challenges. If you find one good thing in a “bad” situation than that situation will change its parameters and a challenge becomes a lesson, a lesson by definition has a message one needs to learn, to know, to understand. This is how we gain experience, how our soul learns and explores… and our ability to solve problems is a lesson, an example for so many other entities.
Feeling stuck and don’t know what to do, how to act, where to start? Take a deep breath in exhale as deep as you can and say the words: “Hey my dear guides, I need all of your support now” and do it like you practiced that line all your life, with confidence, with trust, powerful and clear. Your guides will assist you.
Ok, I will stop here for now and strongly suggest you to read other articles on this blog because most of them ar … kind of related one to the other.
“within our strongest fears we find the strongest tools to overcome our limitations” ~ Dascent
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Thank you very interesting read and something I needed to read presently 😊
You are welcome
Hi Dascent, this is a wonderful and very detailed article, or perspective as you call it.
As a healer I have experience with energetic vampires and parasites and most of my clients feel better but get really scared and that fear state is not helping at all and this post is helping them understand their situation so thank you.
thank you too
I do have to add a note that indeed the article is filtered and part of my experience so it is my perspective.
Your clients might discover their own perspectives through the experiences they go through…
Be well