How to transform different states of being and really Heal yourself.

A nice quote placing the one who resonates with it in victimization state.
Here’s a interesting spin for the affirmation made.

Many can sympathize with the idea, even resonate to such a degree that they agree 100% because they rely to that idea, to the victim state, which was familiar to them and that’s ok we don’t dismiss feelings, but here’s a perspective which not many though about and instead of reminding yourself about a conflict or a situation in which the affirmation proves to be 100% true (there’s nothing ok with that) turn the table around and get empowerment… instead of the reminding yourself how it feels to be the victim (which is not a healed state) in a particular situation try change your perspective…
We all got at least a dozen of these “happenings” and we all consider we’ve paste over them, but sometimes that belief proves not to be true and we get our buttons pushed once in a while or even more frequently that we like too.

So, let me bring into your awareness the idea of picking yourself up and placing yourself on another energy state. Let’s understand the victim state and move to a more self-empowering one.

See the following through the new perspective.

“Some people will hurt you and then they will act like you hurt them”

And you know why?

(this is my fav.)

Because they are not bad souls but they project their own issues to make you feel their wounds, their trauma and see how you heal so they have an example on how to heal themselves.

If they were to do this in a conscious way, Haven on Earth.

So besides the idea of you learning a lesson from a conflict or trauma or any other situation you don’t like (God knows you had a lot of them) might be the opposite. What if You are their helping crutch, you are strong enough to deal with their issues and show them, teach them (indirectly of course. through your attitude, through your energy, by example) how to heal themselves.

There was a nice quote that I partially remember…
Consider that maybe You are God’s response to their prayers.

So my suggestion is to pay attention to “spiritual and uplifting quotes” .
Because the message you resonate with is not the same with the message your subconscious is receiving and …. that’s not healing.

Credits to the image: Stumbled upon it on X (former Twitter). Relationship Rules.
I can credit the user, the X account but wouldn’t be nice from my part to present MC (the user’s) teachings in such a different perspective without the user being able to add additional input, a response if you like… So I will extend an invitation to this cool user and see if MC wants to exercise the right of freedom of speech, freedom of thinking, and some freedom of expressing.

The individual which I am referring to as MC (as a form of respect and privacy) is from my understanding a coach, a trainer or facilitator I have no idea what is called, a mediator maybe or a helper of deeper understandings of the rules of a relationship… and MC does that, posts interesting images with ideas, perspectives and I, being the way I am, take interest and play with those perspectives.

Dear reader, please don’t take this as a reflection of online shaming because it is not. MC (the coach) is doing what knows, teaching what MC believes it is working for that particular audience, I do what I do for my self development. Expanding perspectives.